hey: to the young ace and/or aro ppl
If you realise later that you’re actually not ace/aro, that’s OK. it doesn’t mean that you were lying to anyone, or that your identity was ever invalid
orientations can be fluid and you can discover more about yourself as time goes on.
the people who said “you’re just too young to know” were still wrong to say that, even if you realise later that you’re not ace/aro. It’s OK. You’re still valid